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Meet Jennifer James; My Travel Partner To South Africa & Founder of The Global Team of 200

Meet Jennifer James; My Travel Partner To South Africa & Founder of The Global Team of 200

For someone whom I took to be soft-spoken when we first met, Jennifer James sure does know how to  amplify! Through her voice and those of her team members, around 50 million people around the world have heard the words and images she has to share.  That is loud, and her messages of social good are worth listening to.  This past spring I announced that I will have the privilege of traveling in August with Jennifer to South Africa for The Global Team of 200.  I would like to introduce you to my travel partner, founder of  Global Team of 200, Mom Bloggers For Social good, Mom Bloggers Club, and dynamo, Jennifer James

In order to introduce you,  fellow Global Team of 200 member, Jennifer Barbour, generously agreed to let me re-post the  fantastic  profile that she wrote for her Philanthropy Friday series on her blog www.anotherjennifer.com. Click here to read her piece in its entirety .

As Written by Jennifer Barbour

Jennifer James

Jennifer James

Jennifer James started blogging back in 2004 at a time when most people had never even heard the term “blog”.

She founded the oldest and the largest social network dedicated to mom bloggers in the world, Mom Bloggers Club, in 2007.

Clearly ahead of her time in terms of using the power of social media and creating online communities, Jennifer James has had the unique perspective of seeing how mom bloggers, in particular, have grown throughout the years. Read the rest of this entry

Turkey On My Mind

Turkey On My Mind

With everything that is going on in Turkey these days, the country and our family members there have been in the forefront of our minds. I decided to re-post this post I did a while ago on the symbolism of the evil eye. The people of Turkey could use some protection from ill will about now.

The Evil Eye

In the midst of exploring the magnificent architecture, history and culture of Istanbul,Turkey it was hard not to notice the tiny blue evil eye icons glinting at me throughout the city.  It was on that first visit to Istanbul in 1997 that I learned the significance of the evil eye in the region. According to the Encyclopedia Britannica “Belief in the evil eye is ancient and ubiquitous: it occurred in ancient Greece and Rome; is found in Jewish, Islamic, Buddhist, and Hindu traditions and in folk cultures and preliterate societies; and has persisted throughout the world into modern times.”    The symbol of the blue eye is meant to ward off the “evil eye” look given intentionally or unintentionally of ill will, usually due to dislike or envy.  The charm serves as protection by deflecting bad luck back at the offender or absorbing it.  Word is that if your talisman cracks or breaks you know it worked to protect you.   Speculation is that long ago due to the rarity of blue eyes in that area of the world, the color came under suspicion as powerful in some way.

Photo by Elizabeth Atalay

By the time we returned home from that first visit we had acquired numerous evil eye souvenirs from our trip, items I looked at as beloved travel memorabilia and cultural artifacts.  Two years later we went back to Istanbul with our infant daughter. Before we left for Turkey my husband’s sister gave us a tiny safety-pin with a plastic blue evil eye dangling from it. It was meant to be pinned to our baby’s clothes for safe travel.   At night I would remove the tiny pin and place it on the dresser, but put it back on her each morning as we got dressed.  The earthquake hit on our third night there, it registered as a 7.6 on the Richter Scale and when it was over our room was a jumble of toppled furniture and broken belongings.  No one in our apartment had been injured, so we considered ourselves extremely fortunate. As we straightened up the mess in the room, atop the dresser sat the tiny plastic pin exactly in the spot I had set it the evening before. Nothing had fallen on it, in fact it had not moved at all, but it was cracked down the middle in a sharp jagged line.  I gasped when I saw it, in my mind the superstition had been proven true.  My baby had been protected by it.  Sometimes a moment can alter your perception of something, consciously or not, when that internal shift takes place, the seed of that idea is planted. Rationally I remained skeptical, but spiritually I became a believer in the evil eye in that moment.

My father-in-law and husband tell the following story:  For scientists, science and superstition are mutually inconsistent. A neighbor visiting Niels Bohr in his country home found the great Danish physicist (recipient of the 1922 Nobel Prize) nailing a horseshoe above the front door of his house. The friend laughed, “Professor Bohr, I cannot believe you believe the old superstition of horseshoes warding off bad luck!”

Bohr quipped, while continuing to fix the horseshoe in place, “I don’t, but this is just in case”

To this day I wear evil eye jewelry whenever I think of it, we have evil eye house wares throughout our home, and my car keys dangle from an evil eye key chain. Do I believe in the evil eye? I suppose I do, and I display it everywhere….just in case.

My key chain

Creating A Vision Board For The Future

Creating A Vision Board For The Future

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I know this can sound a bit out there, but I have had friends who have done vision boards and some of their dreams from those boards have actually come true. I swear. Not just mundane things, but a job on a yacht for example, or funding for their company coming out of nowhere. I have heard of this happening enough times now that I am starting to believe there may be something to this whole vision board thing. So when Stacey Hoffer Weckstein of the Inspiring Moms Network told me about her new campaign, I thought I’d give my own vision board a try! This month I am working with Inspiring Moms Network on a project that helps women to Awaken their Age potential. What exactly does that mean? Guided by Lori Campbell and her book on the topic, it is inspiring people to foresee an exciting future for themselves as they age, as opposed to our cultural norm of fearing the aging process.

In my book, Awaken Your AgePotential: Exploring Chosen Paths of Thrivers, I introduce an emerging trend called AgePotential. AgePotential is a philosophical revolution to change how our culture perceives the daily process of growing older. AgePotential is all about choosing to live a thriving and engaged life instead of settling for the status quo.

As part of this campaign, my goal is to Awaken you to the knowing that this type of aging experience (thriving) is for real and the AgePotential reality can be true for YOU.

Be Well,
Lori

Personally I am not one to fear aging on a grand scheme in general. This may stem from the fact that internally I think I am only 23 years old, but I truly embrace the wisdom and self-assuredness that comes with age. The deeper understanding of life, and the knowledge that I will continue to grow, learn, and understand more as time goes by. That said I can not claim to love the wrinkles that are appearing, or the betrayal of my once swift metabolism. I am excited for the future, while at the same time savoring the present. As part of this Awaken Your AgePotential project I chose to create a future vision board to span the next several decades of dreams and to hone in on some of those hopes I am chasing. I have done collages like the one below based on some of my travels, but never a vision board, so I’ll give you a glimpse of my start and then keep an eye out for the follow up post for the final board once I’m done.

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These are the instructions given on how you begin your vision board:

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Clearly I’ve veered from the directions already at step 1…….

  1. Place two or three pictures of yourself at different ages in the middle of your vision board.
  2. Encircle the photos with a heart to symbolize a growing LOVE OF SELF. In doing so, you give your ever-evolving self a sense of acceptance and unconditional love.
  3. List attributes you value in yourself and place them around these pictures. Expressing self-love is an integral part of being YOUR OWN BEST CARETAKER. Placing yourself front and center gives your mind/body/spirit a message that you are worthy of focused attention.
  4. Set your INTENTION for this board. You are welcome to use the AgePotential Mantra of… “I Can, I Will, I Choose to Create and Live an Extraordinary Aging Experience.”
  5. Envision out three decades past your current age. For example, if you are in your thirties the board would depict you in your 40s, 50s and 60s.
  6. Decide on the main theme of each decade. It may be based on something specific you wish to accomplish or obtain, or it may be a general idea like: things that stretch me to get outside my comfort zone or opportunities that grow me to be more spontaneous.Allow yourself to dream and live the life you so desire. Wake up to all that you can be. Shine some light on a vision that may have been buried under a pile of fears for too long. Create an environment that puts you into a state of allowing. That may mean lighting candles, burning incense, using essential oils, or playing music that speaks to your heart. Remember, this process is not about impressing oneself or anyone else but rather about expressing your truest desires.
  7. Find images, photographs, quotes, affirmations, symbols, poems, songs, prayers that correspond with each decade theme. Draw from magazines, photographs, and the internet. Each theme should be stated clearly on your board so the eye catches the phrase at a glance. Be as creative and expressive as you can. Incorporate fabric and texture using scrap booking materials if you so desire. Any vision that doesn’t bring you alive is too small for you.

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Things to Consider for Each Decade:

  • Personal goals
  • Professional goals
  • Physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual growth
  • Evolving a unique role each decade like… Sue the advocate, Sue the author, Sue the musician etc.
  • Developing a new skill each decade
  • Your bucket list
  • Identify the roles and responsibilities you will give up to make time and clear space for the new
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Some of the pictures that may end up on my vision board!

Will you create your own future vision board? You never know, your dreams just may come true!

Connect with Lori Campbell Online…

Free AgePotential Resources :

  1. Free Chapter: What is AgePotential?
  2. FREE AgePotential Quiz. Find out if you have what it takes to live a robust, active, and fulfilling life
  3. FREE Weekly Aging Affirmations (because the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your thoughts)
  4. FREE Videos at AgePotential TV

 

 

An Exciting Announcement!

An Exciting Announcement!

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My Visitor from The Seychelles

My Visitor from The Seychelles

I wrote about my Flag Counter over a year ago when I started this blog, and it is thrilling for me to see the countries that have found their way here  since then. Today I noticed that someone from the Seychelles had visited documama, and I got all excited because I have been to the Seychelles, and it is one of my favorite places on this earth!  It was the end of six months traveling overland through Africa from Morocco down to Botswana, and I had heard of the stunning beauty of the Seychelles, so a couple of friends and I decided to check it out before heading home.  We were three backpackers, looking pretty scruffy,with little money to our names, but we jumped on a boat from Kenya, and made our way to Mahe, the main island.

On our boat ride over

We decided to stay on one of the smaller islands of the archipelago called La Digue. . There was only one (pricey) hotel on the island but we were unfazed, and unrolled our sleeping bags out on the beach to camp out.  We found what we thought would be a nice safe cove tucked away on an empty beach, (here I need to interject that all of the beaches were empty and the epitome of paradise with white powder sand and warm aquamarine water.) In the middle of the night we woke up to waves lapping at our feet, soaking our sleeping bags as we realized we could have easily been washed away!  When we awoke again in the morning, after adjusting our spot, a local young man, eager to practice his English, had sweetly brought us coffee, and breakfast after observing us setting up camp the day before in a what he may have recognized as not such a great spot. He showed us a better place where we slept safe and dry the next night.

Waking up on the beach

There were no cars on the island, only carts pulled by oxen, so we rented bikes and rode our way to the one hotel to lounge by the pool, and have some drinks at the pool bar. (Clearly we had our priorities!) Everyone assumed we belonged to one of the yachts docked offshore, because apparently they did not get too many back-packers in the area.  Despite our protests they would not believe that we were sleeping on the beach.  One day we took a day trip to Praslin island which was thought to be the original Garden of Eden by explorer Charles Gordon in the late 1800’s. With its exquisite and verdant tropical forest it certainly could have been. The day we went out on a fishing boat our friend Glen caught a huge Marlin within 10 minutes! It was crazy!

Island transportation

We enjoyed eating grilled fish on the beach with our toes in the sand, idyllic days on the beach or at the hotel pool. The Seychelles seemed to us to be paradise found.  So I want to say thank you to my visitor who stopped by documama today, for the hospitality of your people all those years ago, and for bringing those treasured memories back to me this evening.  My father in law travels the world and blogs at http://www.bulentatalay.com , and also has the Flag Counter on his site; whenever we travel we look up each other’s sites to give each other another flag.  This week I may see new flags from Qatar and Dubai from him, but I’m pretty sure he’s not in the Seychelles right now.

The Flag of The Republic of Seychelles

My Flag Counter now

My Flag Counter then

With the catch of the day!